What REAL Emotional Stability Looks Like

If your goal is to be emotionally stable, you need to keep something in mind.

The most stable structures on earth are flexible. Even if they don’t look like it to the naked eye.

To meet the demands of life, emotional or otherwise, you must also be flexible.

Emotional stability

A Successful Life Demands REAL Emotional Stability

In other words, if you don’t want to be overcome by the sum total of forces that will inevitably come at you in life, you need to develop supremely good physical and emotional stability.

Which is going to require that you give up some rigidity that you probably perceive as strength.

And let yourself find, move, and release some energy that you think is STUPID and POINTLESS to let out.

And you can do that through something I call strategic emotional instability.

Simple but Not Easy

Here’s the thing about achieving supremely good emotional stability. The requirement of strategic emotional instability that makes it possible is simple. But not easy.

And it’s not for the faint of heart

It will be one of the hardest things in your life to do. Because the “stability” you currently have will be challenged.

And the struggle you will inevitably have as you let go of your current “stability” may not seem worth it.

Unless the pain you face is greater than the pain of the challenge of giving up your current “stability.”

That’s why most people don’t do it. And that’s why so many really successful-looking people go around unhappy.

So, if you’re ready to be happy, and you’re up for a challenge. Call me. We’ll talk. 

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